Tech Safety Tips

Consider safety first: getting rid of a compromised device or refusing to answer calls may increase suspicion or cause an escalation of dangerous behavior. It may be necessary to continue using the devices, while formulating alternative methods to communicate and move about safely.

When researching information/resources online: make note of the ESCAPE button available on many DV-centered websites. Learn to clear your browsing and search history or locate a safe computer; many libraries offer computers for public use.

Choose passwords and password hints/security questions wisely. Keep in mind that a current/former partner will likely know your answers to common security questions or frequently-used password combinations, such as: birthdates, nicknames, favorite band, mother’s maiden name, pet names, etc. Consider creating false answers to set security questions.

Lock your cell phone and tablet, and do not leave portable devices unattended. Consider obtaining a pre-paid phone if your partner monitors your primary phone.

If your cell phone is part of a family plan with your partner: obtain a safe phone or strategize access to a phone where you can make calls safely. Be mindful that your partner can access your shared account and check the call history.

Learn how to block calls from specific numbers or unknown numbers (instructions vary for Apple, Android, etc.)

Know how to turn off Location and Bluetooth settings, and disable geotags on your camera phone. Be strategic about cloud storage, and any data that automatically backs up to the cloud.

Monitor your children’s devices: abusive partners may “gift” children with iPhones or tablets, preloaded with software to track or spy on survivors.

For short periods of time, all communication from a phone can be cut off by putting the phone on airplane mode, or turning the phone off and taking out the battery. During this time, the phone’s location will not be broadcast. However, when the phone is back on, all communications will continue and location information may be shared again.

GPS tracking devices can be purchased readily via online stores. If your partner is unexpectedly showing up and “running into you” around town, or seems to know too much about your day-to-day commute: check the car for tracking devices. Take the car to the police station or trusted auto mechanic.